The Sign that brought some comfort

Byljanning@dukemanorfarm.com

Ever since that phone call at 10:01 pm on March 20th, my heart has not been the same. It longs and aches for my beautiful niece who I will never see again….. on earth. 
And in the midst of my sorrow there is some comfort. For that I am grateful.
Comfort in a sign……… and in friendship.

For years this has always been a favorite song and every time I hear it, it speaks to me and my heart. Little did I know that one day I would be listening to this song being sung at my nieces funeral by a dear family friend, as I sat there broken hearted and completely devastated.
Seeing those lyrics brings me to tears, but yet brings me some comfort.

Wanting to bring my sister an ounce of this comfort during this unimaginable time in her life, I decided to order the sign for her with plans to hand deliver it when I went to Florida last week. It just felt right wanting to be there as she opened it instead of it being delivered to her and opening it alone.
Unfortunately due to schedules, I would not get the sign I ordered in time. Terribly disappointed and upset I called a friend to talk about it and share the updates of my sign order.

It was during that conversation of healing that she also brought me comfort (she does that for me) …… much comfort. See, this friend of mine who lives four or maybe five states away was willing to drive and meet me halfway to give me something. Something that would stop my tears from sadness and disappointment, and at the same time would create tears of joy in memory and honor . My friend has the same sign and she was was willing to give me hers. 


It was an act of such love and generosity that has touched so many hearts and that will never be forgotten by me or my sister…..just like my beautiful niece.

Grateful for~ 
This friend and other friends who bring me comfort when I most need it in my life.
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  7. What a wonderful and true friendship you have, Laura. This story speaks volumes about both of you. Grieving a loss takes a lifetime but, the pain subsides and warm memories take over…again, in time. Thanks for sharing this warm and loving story.

  9. Oh Laura so very sorry for your families loss!! It has to be terribly hard but what a blessing you have in your friend! God spoke to your hearts for sure!

  11. I know someone who has (or maybe had) that sign and if so I'm not at all surprised she would do that for you.
    Bliss

  13. What a loving friend you have. And what a loving sister you are! As you know, I lost my son 3-1/2 years ago…so I know your sister appreciates your love and support more than she could ever tell you. 🙂

  14. You are blessed to have this friend! So very blessed. And this song has always touched my soul as well. I know exactly the feeling of sadness and comfort of which you speak. I pray for your strength during this time of sorrow.

  16. You have now a beautiful Angel on Heaven taking care of you and sending earthly Angels your way.
    Tears in my eyes.
    When a door closes, how many angels are standing in the aile wanting you to throw the windows open and let then in and heal?
    Thankful for this sign of kindred spirits around us. Thank you for sharing,
    Teresa

  17. Laura…you are such a beautiful person…one with a heart as big as the ocean…there is no wonder that your dear friend would do this for you and you always thinking of others…you really warm the heart…your sister and your whole family remains in my thoughts and prayers…you all have a special angel watching over you…much love and hugs…

  18. Amazing…how great God's love is. I have the chills right now. The goodness of your niece is alive and well as you so experienced through your friend. My heart aches for your sister and everyone in your family.

    Blessings to you and yours,
    Therese @ Fresh Idea Studio

  22. What a wonderful friend…those are the truest of friends Laura…and knowing you, I think that you would do the same…..as you are a very kind and generous person…I hope it gave your sister comfort…as you know, I was in the same situation as you, and my sister is doing well…time does heal, but the memories are never forgotten….

  23. Firstly I am so very sorry for your loss, the loss of a child would have to be the hardest thing in the world to go through.

    Reading your post today has me in tears, I have not lost a child but I did loose my mother to cancer last year and it still breaks my heart and I cry most days. Loosing a child is unimaginable and a huge pain to bear.

    Any little thing that brings comfort at a time like this is helpful and the words on the sign are beautiful and in time they will be able to be read with a smile and a remembrance of her happy days. What a wonderful friend to offer to travel all that way to bring a little comfort.

    This post has touched my heart and my prayers are with you and your sister and family.

    Lee

  26. When our lives take us thorough such difficult times it always seems like God sends us incredible people to help us through. I am so sorry about your sweet niece and your family's loss. Please know that I care!

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